feat(apple): default-UI connect/wake modal, auto-wake toggle, pixel-exact windowed streaming

Three client-UX changes that share the connect/present path (and settings files):

- Connect/wake overlay is now mode-aware: the console/gamepad UI keeps the
  full-screen aurora takeover, while the default (touch/desktop) UI shows a
  Liquid Glass modal over the host grid — the takeover looked out of place there.
- Add an auto-wake toggle (DefaultsKey.autoWake, default on) across macOS/iOS/tvOS
  Settings + the gamepad settings view; gate startSession/prepareWake and the
  gamepad "Wake & Connect" label on it. MAC-address learning stays always-on.
- Windowed sessions now stream at the window's native pixels (Match-window
  default-on) so the picture is 1:1 pixel-exact instead of the presenter
  resampling a fixed-mode frame; fullscreen reports full-display px, also 1:1.
  Also lands the mid-resize aspect-fit tracking (decoded contentSize) that keeps
  the picture undistorted after a resize.

swift build + swift test (121 tests) green; screenshot scenes verified.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

clients/apple/Sources/PunktfunkClient/Settings/GamepadSettingsView.swift

@@ -36,6 +36,7 @@ struct GamepadSettingsView: View {
     @AppStorage(DefaultsKey.hudPlacement) private var hudPlacement = HUDPlacement.topTrailing.rawValue
     @AppStorage(DefaultsKey.libraryEnabled) private var libraryEnabled = true
     @AppStorage(DefaultsKey.gamepadUIEnabled) private var gamepadUIEnabled = true
+    @AppStorage(DefaultsKey.autoWake) private var autoWakeEnabled = true
     @AppStorage(DefaultsKey.presenter) private var presenter = SettingsOptions.presenterDefault
     @ObservedObject private var gamepads = GamepadManager.shared
 
@@ -258,6 +259,11 @@ struct GamepadSettingsView: View {
                     + "available on the host.",
                 options: SettingsOptions.compositors, current: compositor
             ) { compositor = $0 },
+            toggleRow(
+                id: "autoWake", icon: "power", label: "Auto-wake on connect",
+                detail: "Send Wake-on-LAN to a sleeping saved host and wait for it before "
+                    + "streaming. Off connects straight through.",
+                value: $autoWakeEnabled),
 
             choiceRow(
                 id: "codec", header: "Video", icon: "film", label: "Video codec",