refactor: drop milestone names + consolidate clients; loss-recovery & rumble fixes

Two bodies of work in one commit (the rename moved files the fixes also touched).

Naming/structure cleanup (pre-launch):
- Host modules m3.rs->punktfunk1.rs, m0.rs->spike.rs; CLI m3-host->punktfunk1-host,
  m0->spike; bare `punktfunk-host` now prints help. Types M3Options/M3Source->
  Punktfunk1Options/Punktfunk1Source.
- Clients consolidated out of crates/ into clients/: punktfunk-client-rs->
  clients/probe (crate punktfunk-probe), client-linux->clients/linux,
  client-windows->clients/windows, punktfunk-android->clients/android/native
  (crate punktfunk-client-android; kept [lib] name=punktfunk_android so the JNI
  contract is unchanged). crates/ now holds only core + host.
- Milestone codes M0-M4 purged from code/CLI/CLAUDE.md/README/docs/docs-site,
  kept only in docs/implementation-plan.md. docs/m2-plan.md->
  docs/gamestream-host-plan.md. CI/gradle/flatpak paths updated.

Client loss-recovery (video froze and never recovered after a brief drop):
- Export punktfunk_connection_frames_dropped through the C ABI (the core already
  tracked it for the client keyframe-recovery loop; it was never reachable from
  the ABI clients). Regenerated punktfunk_core.h.
- Apple (StreamPump + Stage2Pipeline) and Android (decode.rs) now poll
  frames_dropped and request a keyframe when it climbs -- the same loss-driven
  recovery Linux/Windows already had. Under infinite GOP the decoder silently
  conceals reference-missing frames, so the decode-error trigger rarely fires.

Apple rumble robustness (worked then went spotty -- DualSense + Xbox):
- Add CHHapticEngine stopped/reset handlers (rebuild on app background / audio
  interruption / server reset) and drop the permanent `broken` latch on a
  transient drive failure; latch only when the controller truly has no haptics.
- Surface swallowed SDL set_rumble errors on Linux/Windows + diagnostic logging.

Verified: cargo build/clippy/fmt --workspace, C-ABI harness, header drift.
Not runnable on this box (verify in CI): Gitea workflows, gradle/Android,
flatpak, Swift/decky.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

clients/apple/Sources/PunktfunkKit/PunktfunkConnection.swift

@@ -362,6 +362,21 @@ public final class PunktfunkConnection {
         _ = punktfunk_connection_request_keyframe(h)
     }
 
+    /// Cumulative access units the host→client reassembler dropped as unrecoverable (FEC couldn't
+    /// rebuild them). The video pump polls this and calls `requestKeyframe()` when it climbs — the
+    /// correct loss trigger under the host's infinite GOP, where unrecoverable loss yields
+    /// reference-missing delta frames the decoder *silently conceals* (a frozen / garbage picture,
+    /// no decode error and no `.failed` layer), so a decode-error trigger rarely fires. Monotonic
+    /// for the session; 0 after close. Cheap (an atomic load) — safe to poll every pump iteration.
+    public func framesDropped() -> UInt64 {
+        abiLock.lock()
+        defer { abiLock.unlock() }
+        guard let h = handle, !closeRequested else { return 0 }
+        var out: UInt64 = 0
+        _ = punktfunk_connection_frames_dropped(h, &out)
+        return out
+    }
+
     /// The currently active session mode (updated by accepted `requestMode` switches).
     public func currentMode() -> (width: UInt32, height: UInt32, refreshHz: UInt32) {
         abiLock.lock()