feat(apple): stage-2 default + pixel-perfect, decode robustness, UI/rumble polish

Stream reliability
- Default to the stage-2 presenter (VTDecompressionSession + CAMetalLayer): it detects
  and recovers a wedged decoder, where stage-1's AVSampleBufferDisplayLayer freezes hard
  on a lost HEVC reference frame with no app-side recovery (confirmed Apple limitation).
  Stage 1 is now a DEBUG-only presenter toggle, plus the automatic no-Metal fallback.
- Stage-2 pixel-perfect: render the drawable at the decoded size (shader stays 1:1 =
  identity) and let the layer's contentsGravity scale via the system compositor — the
  same path stage-1's videoGravity used — instead of scaling in-shader.
- Loss recovery in both pumps is now a persistent awaitingIDR want, retried until an IDR
  actually lands, so a keyframe request swallowed by the throttle can't strand a frozen
  frame; 100 ms keyframe throttle to match the Android path.
- Fix "Publishing changes from within view updates": defer the HostStore writes out of
  the .onChange(of: model.phase) callback.
- Move AVAudioSession setActive/setCategory off the main thread (async on a shared serial
  queue) to stop the UI-stall warning.

Controllers
- Rumble: capped-exponential backoff when the gamecontrollerd.haptics XPC breaks (-4811)
  so a transient server interruption self-heals instead of cascading; playsHapticsOnly so
  a controller engine doesn't join the always-active streaming audio session.
- Host cards: iPad pointer "magnet" hover effect; iPhone press scale + light haptic.

UI / design
- Ship Geist (SIL OFL 1.1) as the app font (bundled OTFs + registration), with the
  license surfaced in Acknowledgements.
- Restructure iOS/iPadOS Settings into a category NavigationSplitView; resolution wheel
  with custom-resolution entry; 10-bit HDR toggle in Display.
- Industrial host-card redesign (left-aligned, bold, brand monogram tiles).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

clients/apple/Sources/PunktfunkClient/HomeView.swift

@@ -127,14 +127,13 @@ struct HomeView: View {
             AddHostSheet { store.add($0) }
         }
         #if os(iOS)
+        // SettingsView owns its own NavigationSplitView (sidebar + detail) and Done button, so it
+        // is presented directly — wrapping it in a NavigationStack here would nest a split view in
+        // a stack (double title bars). `settingsSheetSizing()` widens the sheet on iPad for the
+        // two-column layout.
         .sheet(isPresented: $showSettings) {
-            NavigationStack {
-                SettingsView()
-                    .navigationTitle("Settings")
-                    .toolbar {
-                        Button("Done") { showSettings = false }
-                    }
-            }
+            SettingsView()
+                .settingsSheetSizing()
         }
         #endif
         #endif
@@ -172,7 +171,7 @@ struct HomeView: View {
     private var discoveredSection: some View {
         VStack(alignment: .leading, spacing: 10) {
             Label("On this network", systemImage: "antenna.radiowaves.left.and.right")
-                .font(.headline)
+                .font(.geist(15, .semibold, relativeTo: .headline))
                 .foregroundStyle(.secondary)
                 .padding(.horizontal)
             LazyVGrid(columns: gridColumns, spacing: gridSpacing) {
@@ -249,8 +248,10 @@ struct HomeView: View {
     /// the width so the cards stay edge-aligned with the title and bars — sized touch-first: one
     /// column on iPhone portrait, 3–4 generous cards on iPad.
     private var gridColumns: [GridItem] {
+        // Wider than before: the monogram card is a horizontal module (tile + address line), so
+        // it needs room for a monospaced "IP:port" without truncating.
         #if os(macOS)
-        [GridItem(.adaptive(minimum: 180, maximum: 240), spacing: 16)]
+        [GridItem(.adaptive(minimum: 250, maximum: 320), spacing: 16)]
         #elseif os(tvOS)
         [GridItem(.adaptive(minimum: 320), spacing: 48)]
         #else