feat(rumble): host-authoritative self-terminating envelopes (0xCA v2)

Rumble was level-triggered, unbounded state on a lossy channel: a non-zero
level meant "buzz until further notice", healed only by the host re-sending
state every 500 ms, and every client guessed when the host had died with its own
magic timeout (SDL 1.5 s, Apple 1.6 s, Android up to 60 s). A lost stop, a
reordered start, or a dead host could drone the motor for seconds.

Make "stuck rumble" inexpressible on the wire. The 0xCA datagram grows a
length-tolerant tail — [u8 seq][u16 ttl_ms] — so it self-terminates: the host
authorizes a level for at most ttl_ms and renews it (~120 ms) while it holds,
letting an abandoned one lapse client-side. seq is a per-pad wrapping reorder
gate (reusing GamepadSnapshot::seq_newer) so a reordered stale start can't
re-light a stopped motor. Decoders read the first 7 bytes as a plain level and
ignore the tail, so no wire-version bump: an old client renders a new host's
levels, and a new client falls back to its prior staleness heuristic against an
old host (ttl = None). All four generation pairings render correctly.

- core: encode_rumble_datagram_v2 / decode_rumble_envelope (datagram.rs); the
  client demux applies the seq gate then forwards (pad, low, high, Option<ttl>);
  next_rumble is unchanged (drops ttl), next_rumble_ttl keeps it; ABI adds
  punktfunk_connection_next_rumble2 + PUNKTFUNK_RUMBLE_NO_TTL, ABI_VERSION 4->5
  (WIRE_VERSION unchanged — the tail is backward-compatible).
- host (punktfunk1.rs): the flat 500 ms refresh becomes a renewal loop that bumps
  seq + stamps a fresh TTL on active pads and drains a short post-stop zero burst,
  then goes quiet. Hatches: PUNKTFUNK_RUMBLE_ENVELOPE=0 (legacy v1 + flat refresh,
  a bisect switch), PUNKTFUNK_RUMBLE_TTL_MS (clamped [150, 5000]).
- renderers honor the TTL as their playback duration/deadline and keep their old
  heuristic only for a legacy (ttl=None) update: pf-client-core (the Deck haptic
  keep-alive is now deadline-bounded so it can't sustain a host-stopped rumble),
  clients/windows (SDL duration), android (JNI packs the lease out-of-band in bit
  48 so any u16 ttl is unambiguous; Kotlin createOneShot(ttl)), apple
  (RumbleRenderer.envelopeDeadline + nextRumble2; sessionStaleSeconds demoted to
  the legacy fallback).
- tests: codec round-trip + tail tolerance + seq-gate reorder (Rust); the probe
  asserts the v2 tail arrived under PUNKTFUNK_TEST_FEEDBACK; the Apple loopback
  asserts ttlMs round-trips end to end; RumbleTuning lease-decision cases.

The host-side idle-timeout from the previous commit is defense in depth on the
game side; this is the guarantee on the client side. Design:
punktfunk-planning/design/rumble-envelope-plan.md.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

clients/apple/Sources/PunktfunkKit/Gamepad/GamepadFeedback.swift

@@ -92,15 +92,15 @@ public final class GamepadFeedback {
                     // drain: levels rendered up to ~130 ms late through the core's 16-deep queue,
                     // and its drop-newest overflow could shed a stop while stale nonzero states
                     // queued ahead of it — buzzing until the host's next 500 ms refresh.
-                    var newest: (low: UInt16, high: UInt16)?
+                    var newest: (low: UInt16, high: UInt16, ttl: UInt32)?
                     var rumbleBurst = 0
                     while rumbleBurst < 64, !flag.isStopped,
-                          let r = try connection.nextRumble(timeoutMs: 0) {
-                        if r.pad == 0 { newest = (r.low, r.high) }
+                          let r = try connection.nextRumble2(timeoutMs: 0) {
+                        if r.pad == 0 { newest = (r.low, r.high, r.ttlMs) }
                         rumbleBurst += 1
                     }
                     if let n = newest {
-                        self?.rumble.apply(low: n.low, high: n.high)
+                        self?.rumble.apply(low: n.low, high: n.high, ttlMs: n.ttl)
                     }
                     // Drain a BOUNDED burst of hidout events so sustained 0xCD traffic (a game writing
                     // per-frame LED/trigger reports) can't spin here or block stop() past one cycle.