feat(apple): stage-2 default + pixel-perfect, decode robustness, UI/rumble polish

Stream reliability
- Default to the stage-2 presenter (VTDecompressionSession + CAMetalLayer): it detects
  and recovers a wedged decoder, where stage-1's AVSampleBufferDisplayLayer freezes hard
  on a lost HEVC reference frame with no app-side recovery (confirmed Apple limitation).
  Stage 1 is now a DEBUG-only presenter toggle, plus the automatic no-Metal fallback.
- Stage-2 pixel-perfect: render the drawable at the decoded size (shader stays 1:1 =
  identity) and let the layer's contentsGravity scale via the system compositor — the
  same path stage-1's videoGravity used — instead of scaling in-shader.
- Loss recovery in both pumps is now a persistent awaitingIDR want, retried until an IDR
  actually lands, so a keyframe request swallowed by the throttle can't strand a frozen
  frame; 100 ms keyframe throttle to match the Android path.
- Fix "Publishing changes from within view updates": defer the HostStore writes out of
  the .onChange(of: model.phase) callback.
- Move AVAudioSession setActive/setCategory off the main thread (async on a shared serial
  queue) to stop the UI-stall warning.

Controllers
- Rumble: capped-exponential backoff when the gamecontrollerd.haptics XPC breaks (-4811)
  so a transient server interruption self-heals instead of cascading; playsHapticsOnly so
  a controller engine doesn't join the always-active streaming audio session.
- Host cards: iPad pointer "magnet" hover effect; iPhone press scale + light haptic.

UI / design
- Ship Geist (SIL OFL 1.1) as the app font (bundled OTFs + registration), with the
  license surfaced in Acknowledgements.
- Restructure iOS/iPadOS Settings into a category NavigationSplitView; resolution wheel
  with custom-resolution entry; 10-bit HDR toggle in Display.
- Industrial host-card redesign (left-aligned, bold, brand monogram tiles).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

clients/apple/Sources/PunktfunkClient/StreamHUDView.swift

@@ -69,19 +69,19 @@ struct StreamHUDView: View {
             Text(model.mouseCaptured
                 ? "⌘⎋ releases the mouse"
                 : "Click the stream to capture input")
-                .font(.caption2)
+                .font(.geist(11, relativeTo: .caption2))
                 .foregroundStyle(.secondary)
             // The client-side cursor (⌘⇧C) draws the local cursor over the stream instead of
             // capturing it — the only accurate cursor for gamescope, whose capture has none.
             Text("⌘⇧C toggles the on-screen cursor")
-                .font(.caption2)
+                .font(.geist(11, relativeTo: .caption2))
                 .foregroundStyle(.secondary)
             #elseif os(iOS)
             // Touch always plays directly; ⌘⎋ (hardware keyboard) toggles kb/mouse.
             Text(model.mouseCaptured
                 ? "⌘⎋ releases keyboard & mouse"
                 : "⌘⎋ captures keyboard & mouse")
-                .font(.caption2)
+                .font(.geist(11, relativeTo: .caption2))
                 .foregroundStyle(.secondary)
             #endif
             #if os(tvOS)
@@ -89,13 +89,13 @@ struct StreamHUDView: View {
             // A press (the focus engine consumes it before the host sees it). Disconnect is
             // the Siri Remote's Menu button (.onExitCommand on the stream) — just hint it.
             Text("Press Menu to disconnect")
-                .font(.caption)
+                .font(.geist(12, relativeTo: .caption))
                 .foregroundStyle(.secondary)
             #else
             // ⌘D lives on the app's Stream menu (so it still works when the HUD is hidden);
             // this button is the in-overlay, click-to-disconnect affordance.
             Button("Disconnect (⌘D)") { model.disconnect() }
-                .font(.caption)
+                .font(.geist(12, relativeTo: .caption))
             #endif
         }
         .padding(10)