feat: punktfunk/1 — mid-stream mode renegotiation + PIN pairing ceremony

Renegotiation (no reconnect on resize): the handshake bi-stream stays open; the client
sends Reconfigure{mode} (typed post-handshake message), the host validates + acks
Reconfigured and rebuilds capture/encoder/virtual output at the new mode while the data
plane (keys, ports, FEC) runs untouched — the first new-mode AU is an IDR with in-band
parameter sets. NativeClient::request_mode / punktfunk_connection_request_mode; mode()
reflects the active mode. Validated live on KWin: one continuous stream, 225 frames
@1280x720 then 395 @1920x1080, ~90 ms pipeline rebuild (ffprobe shows both resolutions).

PIN pairing (mutual trust, kills TOFU MITM): clients get persistent self-signed
identities presented via QUIC client auth (generate_identity / client auth offered but
optional server-side — legacy clients still connect). Ceremony on the control stream:
PairRequest{name} → host shows a 4-digit PIN (log) + PairChallenge{salt} → client proves
with HMAC-SHA256(PIN‖salt, client_fp‖host_fp) — binding both certs means a MITM can't
forward a proof, single attempt per PIN, constant-time compare → PairResult; host
persists the fingerprint (~/.config/punktfunk/punktfunk1-paired.json), client pins the
host's. m3-host --require-pairing gates sessions on the paired set.
NativeClient::pair + punktfunk_pair/punktfunk_generate_identity in the ABI; reference
client: --pair PIN --name LABEL + auto-generated persistent identity, --remode for live
renegotiation testing. Swift wrapper: ClientIdentity/generateIdentity()/pair(),
requestMode()/currentMode(); README handoff updated.

Tested: reconfigure/pairing wire roundtrips, C-ABI mode switch ack, full in-process
ceremony (wrong PIN → Crypto, anonymous-vs-gate rejection, success → pinned session);
live wrong-PIN ceremony against the serving host (PIN logged, proof rejected).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

crates/punktfunk-core/Cargo.toml

@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ crate-type = ["lib", "cdylib", "staticlib"]
 default = []
 # Control-plane QUIC (pairing, config, reverse audio). tokio is permitted ONLY here,
 # never on the per-frame hot path. Off by default so the core stays runtime-free.
-quic = ["dep:quinn", "dep:tokio", "dep:rustls", "dep:rcgen", "dep:rustls-pki-types", "dep:sha2"]
+quic = ["dep:quinn", "dep:tokio", "dep:rustls", "dep:rcgen", "dep:rustls-pki-types", "dep:sha2", "dep:hmac"]
 
 [dependencies]
 reed-solomon-simd = "3.1"      # GF(2^16) Leopard-RS, SIMD, O(n log n) — the wall-breaker (P2)
@@ -38,9 +38,10 @@ zeroize = "1"
 
 quinn = { version = "0.11", optional = true }
 rustls = { version = "0.23", optional = true, default-features = false, features = ["ring", "std"] }
-rcgen = { version = "0.13", optional = true, default-features = false, features = ["aws_lc_rs"] }
+rcgen = { version = "0.13", optional = true, default-features = false, features = ["aws_lc_rs", "pem"] }
 rustls-pki-types = { version = "1", optional = true }
 sha2 = { version = "0.10", optional = true }
+hmac = { version = "0.12", optional = true }
 tokio = { version = "1", optional = true, features = ["rt-multi-thread", "net", "sync", "macros"] }
 
 [dev-dependencies]