feat: punktfunk/1 — mid-stream mode renegotiation + PIN pairing ceremony

Renegotiation (no reconnect on resize): the handshake bi-stream stays open; the client
sends Reconfigure{mode} (typed post-handshake message), the host validates + acks
Reconfigured and rebuilds capture/encoder/virtual output at the new mode while the data
plane (keys, ports, FEC) runs untouched — the first new-mode AU is an IDR with in-band
parameter sets. NativeClient::request_mode / punktfunk_connection_request_mode; mode()
reflects the active mode. Validated live on KWin: one continuous stream, 225 frames
@1280x720 then 395 @1920x1080, ~90 ms pipeline rebuild (ffprobe shows both resolutions).

PIN pairing (mutual trust, kills TOFU MITM): clients get persistent self-signed
identities presented via QUIC client auth (generate_identity / client auth offered but
optional server-side — legacy clients still connect). Ceremony on the control stream:
PairRequest{name} → host shows a 4-digit PIN (log) + PairChallenge{salt} → client proves
with HMAC-SHA256(PIN‖salt, client_fp‖host_fp) — binding both certs means a MITM can't
forward a proof, single attempt per PIN, constant-time compare → PairResult; host
persists the fingerprint (~/.config/punktfunk/punktfunk1-paired.json), client pins the
host's. m3-host --require-pairing gates sessions on the paired set.
NativeClient::pair + punktfunk_pair/punktfunk_generate_identity in the ABI; reference
client: --pair PIN --name LABEL + auto-generated persistent identity, --remode for live
renegotiation testing. Swift wrapper: ClientIdentity/generateIdentity()/pair(),
requestMode()/currentMode(); README handoff updated.

Tested: reconfigure/pairing wire roundtrips, C-ABI mode switch ack, full in-process
ceremony (wrong PIN → Crypto, anonymous-vs-gate rejection, success → pinned session);
live wrong-PIN ceremony against the serving host (PIN logged, proof rejected).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

Cargo.lock

@@ -718,6 +718,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "block-buffer",
  "const-oid",
  "crypto-common",
+ "subtle",
 ]
 
 [[package]]
@@ -1142,6 +1143,15 @@ version = "0.4.3"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "7f24254aa9a54b5c858eaee2f5bccdb46aaf0e486a595ed5fd8f86ba55232a70"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "hmac"
+version = "0.12.1"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "6c49c37c09c17a53d937dfbb742eb3a961d65a994e6bcdcf37e7399d0cc8ab5e"
+dependencies = [
+ "digest",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "http"
 version = "1.4.2"
@@ -1917,6 +1927,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "bytes",
  "cbindgen",
  "fec-rs",
+ "hmac",
  "proptest",
  "quinn",
  "rand 0.9.4",