fix(steamdeck): install the plugin runner + harden Deck pad typing + repair update.sh

- scripts/steamdeck/install.sh (§2b) + update.sh: build and install the
  scripting runner user-scoped (~/.local wrapper + pinned bun + bundle) —
  SteamOS's read-only /usr can't take the .deb layout, so the console's
  plugin store reported "the plugin runner isn't installed" on every
  SteamOS host. update.sh retrofits it onto existing installs.
- plugins.rs runner discovery: check the ~/.local layout after the /usr
  ones; mention the SteamOS path in the not-installed error.
- update.sh: define warn() — it was used but never defined, so under
  `set -e` the first warn aborted the update before services restarted.
- pf-client-core gamepad: a Steam Input virtual pad forwarded on a real
  Deck (the only-pad case) now declares the DECK kind in its per-pad
  arrival instead of the wrapper's Xbox 360 identity — the session-level
  auto_pref already resolved SteamDeck, but the arrival overrides it on
  current hosts.
- reject tests: cover SetupFailed; move the foreign-code probe off 0x68.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

crates/punktfunk-host/src/native.rs

@@ -463,7 +463,7 @@ pub(crate) async fn serve(
                     }
                     conn_err.close(
                         punktfunk_core::reject::SETUP_FAILED_CLOSE_CODE.into(),
-                        detail[..cut].as_bytes(),
+                        &detail.as_bytes()[..cut],
                     );
                     tracing::warn!(%peer, error = %detail, "session ended with error")
                 }